Rushing to find out the ins and outs of a BBW dating relationship after just a few BBW dates can be especially distasteful - especially for men who usually take things slow. You may be anxious to fall in love, settle down and have children, but "where is this going?" Starting a conversation before you've had the proper opportunity to get to know each other is foolhardy and virtually guaranteed to scare off any potential bbw tinder hookup partner. Be prepared for a while before asking this delicate question.
Is a stingy
It's never wise to make ends meet and go to clubs, bars, restaurants and other places you can't afford, but picking the cheapest place and pulling out a two-for-one coupon (especially on a first date) is a no-no. Sure, you can save ten dollars, but in the long run, you'll pay the price. Do you really want your hookup date to think you're a tightwad? Men often offer to pay, but that doesn't mean women shouldn't offer to pay or split the bill. Don't come across as someone who never spends money. Never let your curvy date feel that they are being used financially.
Seems too independent
This is an interesting example. Did it ever occur to you that the two of you seemed so at odds that you were afraid to approach? Your overall success and wonder may challenge your future curvy dating partner. If you earn your own money, own your own house, drive your own car, and live a seemingly fulfilling life, they may not see how or where they will fit into your life. So show them that you still have room for a fulfilling and lasting curvy dating relationship. This means letting them see your vulnerable side.
Bad body language
If you feel guilty for not making eye contact, shrugging your shoulders and keeping your head down, you are sending the wrong signals to your future chubby dating partner. Your body language screams, "I'm shy, nervous, embarrassed, and really don't want to be here." Even if that's how you feel inside, you can trick yourself into acting more confident. Smile and make eye contact first. Second, pull your shoulders back and lift your chin. Look, you look so much more confident. Remember to breathe.
Always late
If you're a few minutes late for the occasional bus or other inevitable accident, no one will mind, but regular lateness is likely to annoy anyone you've met for a while. Failure to get somewhere in time exposes many negative qualities that most people would rather avoid. First, it shows a lack of organizational skills; Second, it shows that you don't respect the person whose time you wasted. Therefore, either buy a watch and put it together or risk letting Mr. Or Ms. Perfect slip through your fingers. The choice is yours.
Don't listen to
You probably have a lot to say and are eager to talk about yourself as much as possible in order to convey everything about you in as much detail as possible. But remember, it's also important to ask questions and listen. Not many people like one-sided conversations. They are forced to sit and listen to the other person chatter away. If you want to keep your plus size dating relationship going, take a break from the "me, me, me" anecdote and ask your date to tell you something about themselves. You might learn something.