My boyfriend and I didn’t start out relationship from the very first beginning. As a matter of fact, we went though three months of ambiguous period of time before we decided to become exclusive of each other. I never thing our relationship is special and different. In fact, these days, many relationships start from hookups, some even start with one night hookup with strangers they met on hookup apps, new dating app or in a bar, or out in the street. Many people think that once you become hookup partners, there is no way for you to become his/her love partner. Actually, there is way and there is huge possibility to achieve that if you have the intention to do so. Here I would like to tell you how I turn a hookup into a relationship with my current boyfriend.
Just as the usual and boring trick of many people, my boyfriend and I met on a hookup app or new dating app. Actually, for people who meet on hook up apps or new dating app, this might be the most difficult dilemma in turning a hookup into relationships, because this is really the least romantic way to encounter each other and everyone just don’t tend to contact after one night hookup. My boyfriend and I met in this way, I always kind of hate it.
Anyway, we spent a night together. After that night, I still didn’t consider having a relationship with him, because there is really nothing to tell from just one night. So we went back to our lives without any contact information of each other. One day, we suddenly bumped into each other in a coffee shop. Turned out that we work in the same block.it was awkward at first. He bought me a coffee and we went on a road together. During that short period of time, he was pretty talkative. I never knew that, because back at that night, there wasn’t much talking between us, because you know⋯ We are too busy to rip off each other.
I found him quite funny and charming. He was also very gentle and considerate. Since then, I developed a new feeling towards him. After that, we kept bumping into each other in different places. Sometimes that coffee shop, restaurant, book shop, etc. We even found ourselves being interested in the same book. There were just so much common between us. But given our past, there was always an obstacle that stand between us. Neither of us was willing to take the first move. After about two months, I couldn’t wait it. I asked him out for dinner in my house. Last time, we slept together at his house, so I offered my house this time. Thankfully, he agreed.
That was officially our first date. We didn’t end up in bed, because we would really like to have a normal date without any sexual involvement. After that, we kept seeing each other for several times until we established an exclusive relationship. It turns out that hookup partners can become your significant other.