Don't reject the idea that others want to walk into your life.
In friends with benefits relationship, neither of you should reject the idea of letting potential people walking into your life. If you do this, then you may realize that you have wasted so many good chances to meet potential partners, and you may even have met your soul mate. Both of you are just adult friends who only have purely hookup connections. At this point, you may still want to find someone more serious, and your adult friends finders will want you to do the same. Therefore, in your relationship, you should let others know that you are still available.
When you meet someone right, you should still date then. The only thing I want to say is that your adult friends may not need to know about it unless they are in serious contact with others. This is not to protect their feelings, because they should not have feelings for you, but no one really wants to hear the truth that their hookup partners really like someone else. It's just not very good. If your bbw dating with other adult affair finders becomes more serious, then you should stop the ambiguous relationship with your friends and return to your friend relationship. When you are with other people, make sure you will not be derailed again.
When your adult friends date others, don't be angry.
If the other party cannot see you and cannot make love with you when you want to, neither of you has the right to be angry with the other. They maybe busy finding their love of life, and it has nothing to do with you. You can't be angry with them. When you find you are angry and disappointed, ask yourself why. How do you feel about your hook up partners? You need to make a plan that is suitable for both parties. You should not talk too much with your adult friend finders, may be text them one or two days before you want to get intimated with them.
I have also heard that adult friends send text messages at the beginning of the week to arrange some time with each other. As long as it works for you. If you communicate with each other and see when you are good to each other, there should be no complications. When you want to take some action, if you start sending messages at will, problems will arise. You should not call your friends finders too much because they are still alive. They may not have time to hook up with you at any time of the day, you need to understand this.
Don't take your adult friends out for date.
You two cannot date each other. Why are you going to have a cup of coffee or watch a new movie with the person who went to bed with you? I know you won't. You all decided to enter this tinder hookup relationship, knowing that it was just for sexual pleasure. If you want to hang out with adult affair finders, call other friends. You don't want to interact with this person for too long, because that's when the affair dating begins to develop. If you miss a true fwb dating relationship with the person you hookup with, you can always arrange some real friend time. However, it is normal to see them often before you start sleeping together, otherwise you should not do this.