I would have never imagined that I could met someone as compatible, cute, amazing and caring as Lucy after 2 failed marriage and countless heartbroken experiences. I guess you would always see the silver lining after hit the bottom of your life. And the turning point of my life all started from that sunny afternoon.
I was browsing the Internet and a random advertisement just came up: A transgender dating app? I was more than confused because as long as I need to find someone special in my life, I have never dated any transgender women or transgender men and have never considered dating any... but the line below the eye catching website logo has changed my mind: try it out and you will have nothing to lose. Well, who am I to be picky now, and it doesn’t hurt to try something new right?
And then I signed up on the transgender app which filled with a tremendous amount of shemale, ladyboy, tomboy, crossdressing men as well as t girls. I honestly didn’t care about how they label themselves, at the end of the day, it is personality that matters right?
Soon I matched with this girl called Lucy, or more specially, a transgender girl if that matters. And she is absolutely gorgeous: dirty blond hair with the natural round face with cute freckles. More intriguingly, she is such a nice girl who is passionate about volunteering work as well as activism for LGBTQ. After about 2 weeks of constantly back and forth exchange, we have been getting to know each other more and more. And I have to admit that the more I talk to her, the more I want to see her in person, to feel her vibe and maybe hold her hands.
“What would you say if we grab a cup of coffee together?”
Even more surprisingly, it is the girl who took initiative. She is definitely not the kind of girl who loves to play hard to get. “Well, sure, Maan Coffe at 3pm tomorrow?” I tried to act not as excited as I actually was and tried to look cool.
I guess that is what you would call love in the first sight. She is beautiful, but that wasn’t just that. It was because of the vibe that she’s giving off which there is no way for me to resist.
As you could see what happens next, we started hookup dating each other and entered in an exclusive relationship after the 8th date.
Of course we have encountered hurdles in our lives since dating a transgender girl or transgender guy isn’t really socially acceptable for all, but always keep in mind that love wins if it is strong enough.
Shout out for all the brothers and sisters out there who are dating a transgender person, it might be hard sometimes, but it will eventually pay off if you meet the right one.