Many people are interested in having a threesome with their significant other. However, not all of them have prepared for what comes next after that. Do you know what are the consequences of having a threesome with your partner? Have you done enough background check about it? Are you sure your fet life relationship can hold through such change?
First if all, I would like to talk to you about the changes that may be caused by threesome hookup. Everyone knows that threesome is adding another person into your sexual life. It is supposed to be strictly limited to sexual behavior, nothing related to emotions. However, once you open the sexual gate, emotions can slip out secretly without yourselves even noticing that. Everyone bears the same risks in this, including yourself, your significant other and the third. Even if you are 100% sure about your relationship, but what if the third is not professional enough. He/she could be fall for one of you. Are you ready to handle that? Will you be able to be strong enough to stand against the temptations?
The second change of your relationship is the dynamic between you. You used to be committed in a monogamous relationship. Once you started adding another person into your relationship, it won’t be a monogamous relationship anymore. Even if you think your relationship and feelings towards each other still stay the same as before, but it has actually changed. There are two different directions of results for this. One is that 3som becomes a new connection and bond between you. Your relationship will ascend to a new level which is stronger and more connecting. This is the good result. However, there is bad result. You might be drifting apart from each other. Your connection might be fading away with the increasing number of people you sleep with. Eventually, you will find that you cannot be turned on by your significant other alone without anyone else. The factor that hold you together is the common interest of open marriage, but not the relationship between you.
I have heard so many stories of many kinds. Some of them are good and some of them are bad. I couldn’t tell you whether you should try having couple dating or open relationship with your significant other or not. You are the only person who knows the status of your relationship. You will be the judge of that. What I want to remind you is that don’t dive into the threesome pool thinking that threesome would spice up your dull relationship. It can do so much more than that. Threesome might be easy to find and have, but the outcomes that come with it might be something you are not ready for. I suggest you to think it through. Do not act rationally. You are about to enter a new era. Make sure you are ready.